Your question
My co-founder and I want different things. Is it worth trying to align or do we split?
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Across the lenses

3 patterns to sit with.

What the lenses had in common. Sharpest when a pattern names a tension you hadn’t fully named yourself — weakest when it summarises something you already know.

  1. 01 Opportunity

    Map the constituencies before you split

    Lincoln and the octopus together — your co-founder probably represents a force the company depends on, and the misalignment is often about authority not direction. Separate the arms, give each one its domain, and watch which conflicts survive.

    From Lincoln's Team of Rivals The Octopus

  2. 02 Warning

    Don't tear down friction you don't understand

    Chesterton's fence says three years of disagreement has structure; that structure is doing something. The conflicts you can't stand are often exactly what's preventing a bigger, worse mistake.

    From Chesterton's Fence

  3. 03 Opportunity

    Decide while calm, act when it's real

    Odysseus and the Mongol feint say the same thing: the split decision needs to be made in a calm room with written criteria, then tested deliberately in a real conversation, not improvised in a fight. Tie yourself to the mast first.

    From Odysseus and the Sirens The Mongol Feigned Retreat

The substance

The five lenses themselves.

Often the sharpest provocation lives inside a single lens, not in the synthesis above. Skim them; one tends to land harder than the others.

Also considered

Lenses ranked relevant but kept off the exploration — the runner-up reading. Each links to the lens itself, not an applied reading of your question.

  • Method

    The Ship of Theseus

    Replace every plank and ask if it's still your ship.

  • Business

    Tiny Speck's Internal Tool Becoming Slack

    Sell the scaffolding, not the building.

  • Engineering

    The Challenger O-Rings

    The engineers said no, overruled by the launch you couldn't delay.

  • Myth

    The Trojan Horse

    Win by getting them to carry you through the gate.

  • Science

    The War of Currents

    Better marketing beat better engineering.

  • Military

    The Double Envelopment at Cannae

    Let your centre buckle so your wings can swallow them.

  • Statecraft

    The Library of Alexandria

    The knowledge no one thought to back up.

  • Nature

    The Ant Colony

    Leave signals, not instructions.

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