Every public
exploration.
Public explorations, newest first — questions worth sitting with. Private explorations never appear here.
- “My closest friend wants me to leave a good job and co-found with him. Saying no might cost me the friendship.”
- “I've said yes to everything for two years and I'm drowning. I don't know which things to drop or how to drop them.”
- “I keep getting laid off in tech. Is it me, the industry, or am I missing something obvious?”
- “My manager keeps promoting me higher but I miss building things. How do I go back without it looking like failure?”
- “The job I've wanted for a decade just came up. It's a 25% pay cut and my wife is six months pregnant.”
- “Our biggest customer wants us to build a feature only they need. Do we?”
- “We're three years in and still chasing product-market fit. When do you call it?”
- “My mother can't live alone any more. Do we move her in with us, or is that a decision we'd regret for years?”
- “My business failed last year and took my savings with it. How do I start again without repeating the same mistakes?”
- “My co-founder wants to raise a big round. I want to stay small and profitable. Neither of us will move.”
- “Should I lay off two engineers to extend the runway by six months?”
- “A senior colleague presented my work as theirs to the board. Do I confront it, escalate it, or let it go?”